Friday, 11 May 2012

Be a Man, Enough Said.



Being a man is a full time job. There are many ways to define a man, and different people have different definitions, so I'm going to skip all that crap and tell you the only thing you need to know: My way is the correct way.
Men are different from women in very fundamental and valuable ways, but that for some reason--and I don't pretend to know what that is--men, for lack of a better word, have become feminized.
My premise is simple and it has three parts. A man naturally wants to protect a woman. A woman wants to be protected by a man. Both want to be respected.
Respect:
A real man respects himself and others at all times. Whether you’re rich or poor. A man naturally wants to protect a woman.
A woman wants to be protected by a man. Both want to be respected.  A man will respect a woman that's on his own level but he won't cherish a woman that is utterly competitive with him because she is simply not stimulating that thing which evokes his cherishing

Men don hit women.
Women are meant to be loved, not understood.
Don’t cheat on your woman
Respect her space and privacy.
Respect her opinion.
Spend time with her, respect her, possibly take her to forever. 

Accept responsibility for your relationships.
Im pretty sure that ladies would agree, there is no feeling in the world worse than feeling alone in a relationship when u have a man but he’s too busy with other things.
Fellas, that is your relationship, take care of it, play ur role in it. Relationships are a two-way streets. Take part.
Make a promise, Keep it.
 When a real man makes a promise, he keeps it. If he can't keep a promise, he doesn't give his word. A real man would rather die than break his word. A real man knows that his words are as powerful as his actions, and that they must be taken at face value.
Children
Take care of them.
Love them.
Teach them respect.
Teach them the importance of culture from an early age.
Be a hero to them.
A real man doesn't look like a woman

A real man doesn't have long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of the salon, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman.
Any man who doesn't know how to tie a tie should hand in his testicles immediately.

Keep it simple.
A real man keeps it simple. If you know big words, use them rarely and appropriately -- at least in front of morons who think they're smarter than you.

 Think Like A Man. Act like a Man
Be willing to fail.
Be confident.
Express love actively.
Face your fears.
Respect another man’s hustle.

1 comment:

  1. Now I would be very selfish if I did not share this one

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