Guys have options. Why can’t girls have options? Don’t get
me wrong, I am not promoting “ubufebe” here but i'm saying Feba nge order, anyway it’s an honest question. There’s
no rule against it right? So why are we judging girls with options and high 5
guys with options, that’s not fair.
I certainly believe (sometimes) that a girl is allowed to
have options as with guys.
So many heartbreaks, so many heartaches and this could all
be prevented by less labelling and having options. If girls took time to choose
the right partner, the heartbreak problem is solved, you probably wondering, “what
does he mean, all guys and nice and cute during courtship” Well, every girl
likes atleast 3 guys, so if one of those guys started asking you out and end up dating…
flirt with the other guy that you like and date him, but you don’t have to sleep
with guy number 2, he is there for comfort and make you feel good about
yourself and whilst doing that he shows you the real him that you end up really
loving but you still have guy number 1, relax though and stay calm.
Loving 2 people is easy but choosing the one you fall inlove
with is not your decision to make, it just happens.
So back to guy 1 and guy 2… a NICE pair of shoes and a spare…where
am I going with this? You can always fit in guy 3 for fun…THERE’S NO WAY to find a
perfect man, he doesn’t exist but you could at least try find a good man, we
exist in these 3 guys ....ok 2 guys...oh well . Anyway between a pair of shoes and a spare
you certainly can be able to find the right man. Yes you can have time for all
three darling, because the one who has the most power is the one who is less
emotionally driven…You been hurt for too damn long by now you should be able to
control your damn feelings.
Ad Break: It’s good to date outside you comfort zone.
Anyway, 3 guys neh, or two, but two is too few. So you have guy
1 right and you guys are cute and stuff but you flirt with 2 and date him. So,
now rotate guy 1 and make him guy 2 and guy 2 make him guy 1, you basically
rotate the one you like less to a desirable position, as you get familiar with
guy 3, rotate him and make him guy 1, by doing this guy one gets more attention
all the time and you have guy 2 and 3 vying for your attention and your self
esteem will sure damn level out.
Ad Break: get rid of your dating “musts”
So you keep rotating these guys until you find you favourite
and drop 1 and leave two. Until you find you favourite in the last two.
The most important reason to date multiple men is …………..(quick
ad Break: sleep with two incase one sucks in bed)………the number one way to find
what you looking for, best way to avoid settling with a dick of a guy and a “must”have…Yazi
futhi lendaba yo “must have is the one cause of heartbreak, you settle for
nonsense that isn’t emotionally good for you but because you already have this mental
list in your head of a “must have” you settle. Dumb girl.
Anyway, the power of
choice is important and dating multiple guys will help you find that one person
that is great for you.
Don’t give away your gift of monogamy.
Feba nge order.
