Alot of Men seem to have lost the plot of being a Man somewhere along the line, and this has nothing to do with gay "men"...
Men are losing it, losing the status of being a man because of a few individuals who choose to remain in the boyzone at the age of maturity and for this I partly blame women, because women when it comes to men they have somehow somewhere confused age with maturity and this is not only in dating but in friendship as well. Men mature well if there's a woman involved - {not a slutty girl - whose having fun},not because they are getting old, no, they too want to be real men to a real woman or a lil girl they want to sleep with whose presented herself as this full grown 20 year old woman, Little as she is, she immediately thinks, old man = maturity = date-able.
True men do not think about themselves. They do not always think about sex. They stand up for what they believe, take responsibility for their actions, help others, they are self confident, physically stong and in shape, have a sense of humor, generous, honest, and are considerate. They provide a sense of security.
But for a Man to be a Man, He must love and honor God. Everything else will fall into place.
- Maturity (age does not equate to maturity)
- Be presentable
- Be kind
- Be supportive (family and in relationships)
- If you Christian, love and fear God - A Man that loves God has the utmost respect for Women.
- Love your Mother - how you treat her is an indication of how you'll treat your lover.
- Respect beer.
- NEVER EVER hit a woman. If you fed up leave.
- Don't cheat on her and make it obvious that you are - Leave her instead.
- In fact if you in a committed relationship, don't cheat at all.
- A real man doesn't gossip. He shelters information and rations his words.
- A real man knows the difference between right and wrong.
- A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words.
- A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife
- A real man knows the importance of family
- A real man will keep his family strong and pass on his ancestors' history and traditions.
- A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others
- A Real Man's Word Is His Bond
- A real man respects himself and others at all times, unless, of course, he has been disrespected.
- "A real man doesn't love a million girls, he loves one girl in a million ways."
- A real man does not date young girls.
- A real man drinks beer.
- A real man doesn’t use women
- A real man does not go into the social networks and pretends to be this cool thing amongst the ladies and say things he has no knowledge of only because he wants to get laid.
- A real man doesn't look like a woman.
Aside from that fact that there is no definitive image of a "real man" (and no, women's delusions do not count), there's also the fact that nobody ever ask if SHE was a "real woman".
Well said man. I strive to be that man.
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